and if you like your hair long? would you go with it? i just wanted to know.. but i'm not in that situation. i'm just really curious. :))
What would you say if your boyfriend asked you to cut your hair real short cause he likes it that way??
This can be viewed in two dimensions:
1. Submission: You love him so much that you can do anything for him, what is hair? Hair can be regrown. But love shouldn't be blind.
See his intentions first. Why is he asking you to cut your hair...just because he likes it this way? What if you ask him similarly, say for his beard or moustache or for his piercings or anything that he likes but you don't, will he do it readily?
Liking something in your partner and asking for it and then reciprocating similarly, is 'Submission in Love' and is acceptable. But if it turns out to be a one way affair then it is 'Submission in Dominance' and should be opposed.
'Submission in Love' has been the way of lovers from time immemorial.
2. Self-esteem: Men and women are equal in all terms and both have self-esteem. Which is more important to you, your lover's desire (which may be a fancy and not a need) or your self-esteem as to why should you submit to someone's whims and fancies? You have to balance it out.
What would you say if your boyfriend asked you to cut your hair real short cause he likes it that way??
That would be unusual. It has been my experience that most guys like long hair.
What would you say if your boyfriend asked you to cut your hair real short cause he likes it that way??
I would tell my boyfriend, "If you want my hair short buy me a wig first and lets see what I look like."
I would do that before I cut off my long hair to satisfy someone elses wishes.
Good luck.
What would you say if your boyfriend asked you to cut your hair real short cause he likes it that way??
i would tell him to accept you as you are, with long hair, if not, to find a girlfriend that has short hair.
if he doesnt love you the way you are, whats the point of being with him in the first place.
love the way you are, and dont ever change to suit or please someone else....
What would you say if your boyfriend asked you to cut your hair real short cause he likes it that way??
I had really short hair when my boyfriend met me and he always asks me to cut it that short again. I might, I havnt really decided yet.
What would you say if your boyfriend asked you to cut your hair real short cause he likes it that way??
i dunno, it would depend on the situation- how much i loved my boyfriend and how much i loved my hair. i would probably compromise and cut it somewhere around where i was comfortable that was also satisfactory for him. or i would cut it short, just for fun.
What would you say if your boyfriend asked you to cut your hair real short cause he likes it that way??
No, I would not cut my hair for a boyfriend just because he likes it. Why would you give up your own personal choice for him? or for anyone for that matter?? no, no, no.....love means acceptance.
What would you say if your boyfriend asked you to cut your hair real short cause he likes it that way??
it depends on the person actually. Though its pretty strange as most guys like long hair but if your boyfriend asks you to cut your hair and u like your long hair, tell him that u like ur hair and would not wana cut it the way he wants as u dont like short hair and if u cut it only just to please him and make him happy, will end up feeling bad and low and uncomfortable looking at yourself in hte mirror. I am sure if hte boyfriend loves you lot and cares for you he will understand your likes and dislikes and will respect your feelings and not force you to do somehting that you are not happy and conformtable doing. In any situation, or problem, its very important to communicate and express ones feelings. Unless thats done, how will the opposite person know what you feel within. And once communicated, and things made clear, i am sure there can be found a good and mutual solution to all the problems. Take care.
What would you say if your boyfriend asked you to cut your hair real short cause he likes it that way??
yes, i will...
because i love him..
but depends how it short...
What would you say if your boyfriend asked you to cut your hair real short cause he likes it that way??
YOU MUST HAVE A VERY LOW SELF ESTEEM TO EVEN CONSIDER CUTTING YOUR HAIR FOR A BOYFRIEND.WHY WOULD YOU EVER THINK THAT CHANGING YOUR LOOK YO PLEASE SOMEONE WOU;D BE OK?
THEY EITHER CARE ABOUT YOU THE WAY YOU ARE OR THEY DONT....DONT WASTE YOUR TIME WITH SHALLOW PEOPLE...IF YOU DO,YOUR IN FOR A VERY,VERY SAD EXISTANCE.
YOUR WORTH MORE THAN THAT..I HOPE.
GL...SPIDER817
